Grandma’s Sunday Meatballs and Sauce is the ultimate Sunday night dinner. This recipe cooks for hours so your house smells amazing by dinner time!
We love making comfort food dinners like this meatball and sauce recipe! If you’re looking for more comfort food recipes like this try our Beefy French Onion Soup or our Beer Braised Lamb Shanks or this Turkey Tetrazzini!

Meatballs And Gravy or Sauce?
Italian Sunday gravy, Sunday sauce, gravy…sauce. Whatever name you call it, this is the epitome of Sunday dinner in my family. And nope, there aren’t any short cuts with this Italian meatball recipe.
This is an old school, authentic recipe for sauce and meatballs that cooks low and slow pretty much all afternoon just like my Grandma used to do.
When we talk about our Grandma, we really mean a collective group of them. It was my Grandma, my Aunt and three great Aunts that all lived together in an apartment building.
They lived on separate floors but they were always together, cooking and eating. That’s pretty much what they did. Cook and eat.

Can you imagine that life? What’s for dinner tonight guys? Ok let’s throw together some homemade chicken and pastina soup, some meatballs and sauce and oh hey – how about a pot roast on the side?
Those are my people. I was definitely born at the wrong time. My dad used to take us downtown to visit them pretty often, I’d say at least once a week or every couple of weeks – a lot of times on Sundays.
They’d make Sunday dinner that started in the early afternoon and it kept going until way after dinner time.
All of the above mentioned foods were on the dinner list too, so you’re talking at least three different MAIN courses, not to mention all the side dishes that were served too.

These days when we do a Sunday dinner, I usually keep it to one main course like this Grandma’s Sunday Meatballs and Sauce. Because I have lost my ability to sit down and eat for an entire afternoon.
This recipe is enough on its own to feed an army of people so it’s perfect for a large family dinner or a party.
And I mean, this meatball recipe has a LOT of meat going on. You’ve got the meatballs, then you have the delicious pork neck bones that literally fall apart into the sauce and a few links of sausage.
How To Make The Best Meatballs
To get the best meatball for spaghetti and meatballs, you want a soft meatball but still firm enough to hold together. This takes just the right amount of meat to breadcrumb to egg ratio.
And these meatballs are it.

Once you get the meatball ingredients mixed together roll them into large balls and get them on a sheet pan to bake in the oven. Just where they start out, then they finish cooking in the sauce.
Do You Cook These Meatballs Right In The Sauce?
For this meatball and sauce recipe they start in the oven, even though some authentic Italian meatball recipes will add the raw meatballs right into the sauce.
Totally not opposed to cooking them that way but if you want a pretty plate of spaghetti and meatballs without the meatballs all broken apart I like to start them in the oven. Then the meatballs finish off cooking in the sauce to get them soft and full of flavor.
It sounds like a lot of steps, because it is, but trust me in that you don’t want to leave anything out here. If you can’t find pork neck bones (they’re in the butcher department at my regular grocery store) you can use pork spare ribs instead.

How Do You Serve This Meatball and Sauce Recipe?
When we serve Grandma’s Sunday Meatballs and Sauce, I like to put everything in its own bowl. So the meatballs go in one bowl, the pork bones in another bowl and the sausage in another bowl.

Then we serve a huge bowl of spaghetti tossed with the sauce and a bowl of extra sauce on the side. With the addition of a couple bowls of sliced Italian bread – I’m telling you it barely fits on our dining room table!
I do like serving a giant Caesar Salad with this dinner to balance out the heaviness of the meal. Not that a caesar salad is light in any way but at least you’ve got some crunchy greens going on.
Finally, if there’s room you can fry up some homemade fried zeppoles for dessert. Even if you’re full, throw them on the table anyway.
Italian people will probably eat them no matter how full they are. Try this meatball recipe for your next family dinner and maybe you’ll start a new tradition of your own!

Looking For More Meatball Recipes?
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Grandma’s Sunday Meatballs and Sauce
- Prep Time: 1 hour
- Cook Time: 4 hours
- Total Time: 5 hours
- Yield: 12 servings 1x
Grandma’s Sunday Meatballs and Sauce is the ultimate Sunday dinner recipe! These slow cooked meatballs in sauce will take you right back to your childhood!
Ingredients
For the Sauce
- 1/4 cup olive oil
- 2 pounds pork neck bones (you can substitute pork spare ribs)
- 1 pound Italian sausage (sweet or spicy or a mixture of both) each link cut into thirds
- 2 cups diced onions
- 2 tablespoons garlic, chopped (about 4 cloves)
- 3/4 cup red wine
- 1 (6 ounce) can tomato paste
- 2 (28 ounce) cans crushed tomatoes
- 2 (28 ounce) cans tomato puree
- 1 can water
- 2 teaspoons dried basil
- 1 1/2 teaspoons dried oregano
- 2 teaspoons kosher salt
- 1 teaspoon black pepper
For the Meatballs
- 1/3 cup olive oil
- 2 cups finely diced onions
- 2 tablespoons chopped garlic
- 4 pounds meatloaf mix (a mixture of beef, pork and veal)
- 4 eggs, beaten
- 2 cups fresh breadcrumbs soaked with 1/2 cup milk for 15 minutes (squeeze out the excess milk before adding to the meatballs)
- 1 1/2 cups grated parmesan cheese
- 2 teaspoons kosher salt
- 1 1/2 teaspoons black pepper
- 1 cup chopped parsley
- 1 1/2 teaspoons dried oregano
- 1 1/2 teaspoons dried basil
Instructions
- Preheat the oven to 350 degrees.
- Start making the meatballs first by adding the olive oil to a large skillet over medium low heat.
- Add the onions and cook for 15 minutes until very soft, stirring often.
- Next add the garlic and cook for another 2-3 minutes, being careful not to burn the garlic. Turn the heat off and let cool.
- Add the meatloaf mix, eggs, the soaked bread crumbs (squeezed out), parmesan cheese, salt, pepper, parsley, oregano and basil and cooled onions and garlic to a large bowl.
- Mix well until all the ingredients are combined then make a small meatball with the mixture and fry it up in the same skillet you used to cook the onions to test for seasonings.
- Adjust seasonings if needed then start to form the meatballs. (I like to make the meatballs an extra large golf ball size, about 2 inches in diameter but you can make them as big as you like)
- Place the meatballs on a parchment lined baking sheet and bake for 20 minutes. The meatballs don’t have to be cooked all the way through as they’ll finish cooking in the sauce.
- While the meatballs are in the oven you can start the sauce by adding the oil to a large sauce pot over medium heat. Add the pork bones and cook for 15 minutes, turning so the bones brown on both sides then remove from the pot.
- Next add the sausage and brown on all sides, about 7-8 minutes, then remove from the pot. Add the onions to the pot and cook for 15 minutes, stirring, until softened. Next add the garlic and salt, stir and cook for 2-3 minutes more.
- Now pour in the red wine to deglaze the pot, scraping the bottom with a spoon as the wine cooks down, about 3-4 minutes.
- Add the tomato paste to the pot, breaking up and stirring into the onions. Then pour in the crushed tomatoes, the tomato puree and a can of water from one of the empty tomato cans. Add the oregano, basil, salt and pepper to the sauce and stir.
- Add the cooked meatballs, sausage and pork bones to the sauce and bring to a simmer.
- Partially cover the pot with a lid, stirring occasionally for 3-4 hours or even longer if you have time.
- To serve, remove the meatballs and sausage from the sauce and place in a serving bowl. Remove the pork bones and either shred the meat and add back to the sauce or serve the pork bones in a serving bowl on the side.
- Cuisine: Italian
Your recipe sounds delicious. I was wondering if that final 3-4 hours of cooking can be done in a crockpot.
It probably can, although we’ve never done it that way. If you try it let me know!
I absolutely love this recipe and have made it several times , it’s perfect!
Have you ever made it with hot sausage? I picked that up by mistake and wondering if it will change the flavor of the sauce 🤔
It will make the sauce a little spicier, but we love it that way too!
one other quick question could I essentially cook this for say 8-9 hours? or is that too long
I think that might be a bit too long, the meatballs would start to break apart.
If i want to up the sausage to two pounds as well the recipe should be fine as is without having to make the rest of it larger ?
Yes, you can do that, just make sure that you drain any excess grease from the pot after you brown that sausage so that your sauce doesn’t become greasy.
Hi!!! I haven’t made the sauce yet. I have a question! I have an old bottle of Shiraz that I opened and wasn’t able to finish (I know….a sacrilege lol). Would it be ok to use this wine? It’s been open for about a week?
Can’t wait to make this sauce – sounds amazing!!!
A week is pushing it for me, it might be very acidic at this point. Was the wine refrigerated?
I want to make this today but I don’t have red wine only white wine can I substitute white or maybe beef broth to deglaze the pan or what else can I use thank you
You can use beef broth or the white wine, I’d pick the wine over the broth but both will work!
I will use the white wine thank you for responding so fast I am making it now
You’re welcome. How did it turn out?
This recipe is awesome!! I have been looking for a great sauce with meatballs for years and here it is. I followed the directions and it came out perfect. Everyone loved it! Will be making it for Thanksgiving as a side dish.
We love hearing that, thanks Trish!
OMG, this recipe was fabulous! I made it for my DIL and my son after they came home from the hospital with our new grandson. I wanted to make comfort good and this was perfect. The tweak I made was to not use dry bread crumbs, but use 3 slices of bread (crust removed), soaked in milk. I smooshed the bread with a fork, let it sit for 5 min, squeeze out extra milk, then added it to the mix. I also used ground beef and ground pork for the meatballs, and ground beef and 3-italian sausages (casings removed) for the sauce. The seasonings were spot on!
This is now our favorite sauce and meatball recipe!!
Wow, so nice of you. Thank you so much!
I just made your sauce today and it was amazing. My son said it was restaurant quality and a definite keeper. Thank you for this great recipe!!
We’re so glad you like it, thanks for letting us know!
Would it be a horrible idea to omit the Italian Sausage in this recipe? I just wanted to go with straight gravy and meatballs with my pasta.
The sausage does impart a good amount of flavor, but you can leave it out if you want to!
Looks delicious! A couple questions…can I omit the onions or will that skew the taste/texture too much? Also to make the fresh breadcrumbs do you use stale bread or fresh? Thank you!
No, I wouldn’t leave out the onions unless there’s an allergy or something to be concerned about. They add so much flavor to the sauce it would be bland without them. And for the fresh breadcrumbs you can use fresh or slightly stale bread.
I followed the recipe pretty closely, it came out great. I halved the entire recipe because it’s just my husband and I and left out the pork ribs/bones. I used sweet sausage links and did not want to cut them up so I pre-fried them so they would be mostly cooked already. I didn’t want to make fresh bread crumbs so I used plain panko crumbs. I didn’t have milk to soak the crumbs so I just added some water to the crumbs and it was fine. I used cabernet sauvignon. I added a little extra wine because the sauce was a little bitter, but this might have been my fault as I may have toasted the tomato paste a bit too much. I recommend paying close attention at that step. I liked the suggestion of frying up a piece of the meatball meat to taste ahead and baking the meatballs ahead as it will reduce the fat in the sauce. I used 93% lean and they still let off a lot of fat during baking. If you have something to raise the meatballs out of the fat when they cook it would be better just don’t dry them out, but I just dabbed them on a paper towel before putting them in the sauce since I didn’t have a rack to cook on and it worked fine. I prefer a more chunky sauce, with large pieces of tomato so I will change the type of tomato next time. Thanks for the recipe!
You said use fresh breadcrumbs can I still use the bread crumbs in the can w the milk or not sure what you consider fresh breadcrumbs
Fresh breadcrumbs are breadcrumbs made from bread in your food processor. Canned, store bought bread crumbs are fine it’s just that the fresh breadcrumbs give a light texture to the meatballs.
I am over the moon to find this recipe !🥰 my dad who his whole family comes from Sicily made this very Sunday for dinner he most times would start it Saturday night and cook until Sunday night . It was the best ever and when he passed away 2019 I thought the recipe went with him and my sister and I would never give our kids the chance to enjoy it but thanks to you now we can .
Thank you so much for your comment, it really means a lot to us! Family traditions being passed on like this one are the best thing ever.
WAUW!
This is about as authentic as you can get. Just like my mother would make every Sunday. The comment about the chicken pastina soup brought a tear to my eye as well as the gravy. I miss my parents and even though I make all this myself and it’s excellent, they made it better. I remember getting in trouble stealing something from the pot or dipping too much bread before it was done. When I was sick, the first thing my dad would do is cook me some pastina chicken soup. I did the same for my children. I was thinking of all the great things we ate as kids like ricotta macaroni, fava beans, braciole, pasta fagioli. Mmmmm I’m hungry. Time to reheat some of my rigatoni bolognese for breakfast in the pan with a little butter. ;)
What temp do you bake your meatballs at?
350 degrees
That sounds like the perfect breakfast! Chicken Pastina soup was my absolute favorite thing to eat when I visited my Grandmother’s house. There would be a pot of that cooking, along with a pot roast and meatballs…you know, 10 courses for 1 Sunday dinner!
I thought 350 would be right. Thank you!
I’ve recently bought a ninja foodi pressure cooker/air fryer. So easy and fast and excellent results. I highly recommend it. Best invention since the wheel. Our parents, grandparents, etc. would have loved it. Buy the 8 quart. 6 pound whole air fried chickens or small air fried butterball turkey. Makes the best pot roast, ribs, risotto. Lots of italian recipes out there for ninja and you can use instant pot recipes in it too. Hope you check it out.
Thanks for sharing your recipes.
I made this recipe several weeks ago and it was delicious. I’m making it for Sunday family dinner tomorrow. Thank you so much for sharing it!
So happy to heat it Cynthia! We love family traditions like the meatballs for Sunday dinner!
I like to put chicken in my gravy what do you recommend and what kind of tomatoes do you recommend or brand
If I added chicken it would probably be chicken thighs. As far as a brand we use Hunts mostly but you can use whatever brand you like.